Welcome! I’m Lolly
I’m a Self-Trust & Boundaries Coach, and I work with high achieving, highly responsible women who are used to being the reliable one. The one who gets things done, holds everything together and shows up for everyone else.
But sometimes being capable comes at a cost.
You may find yourself saying yes when you mean no, carrying more emotional responsibility than your share, struggling to make decisions that put you first, second-guessing yourself, or feeling guilty when you have needs of your own.
My coaching helps you reconnect with yourself so you can trust your decisions, set boundaries, navigate relationships and create a life that doesn’t require constant self-sacrifice.
How I coach
My coaching is grounded in the International Coaching Federation (ICF) approach: you are the expert on your own life, and you set the agenda.
I won’t tell you what to do or give you a list of answers.
Instead, I’ll create a thoughtful, challenging and supportive space where you can explore what’s really going on, question the assumptions keeping you stuck, and find your own way forward.
Where appropriate, I may also draw on NLP-informed techniques to help you examine patterns of thinking, language and behaviour and create new ways of responding.
The result isn’t becoming a different person.
It’s becoming more fully yourself, with greater self-trust, clearer boundaries and more freedom to choose.
This coaching may be right for you if…
You’re tired of always being the reliable one.
You know what you should do, but struggle to actually do it.
You’re navigating a difficult decision or transition.
You want to set boundaries without the guilt spiral.
You’re constantly considering everyone else’s needs before your own.
You want healthier, more honest relationships.
You’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start trusting yourself.
You want support turning insight into meaningful action.
Choose the option that feels right for where you are right now.
Whether you’d like to have an initial conversation, book a single coaching session, or commit to deeper work over six sessions.
You don’t have to figure everything out before you arrive. We can start with what’s here.